Black rhodium plated prong-set three crystal cartilage earring

Black rhodium plated 10mm high design with one 3.5mm and two 2.5mm prong-set crystals on a 316L surgical steel 6mm or 8mm bar with 3mm screw-on ball closure secured at the back of the ear. The thicker part at the top of the post/base of the setting means it sits about 1.5mm away from the ear rather than against the skin. You can see this in the second photo showing the side view of the earring.

Post length Cartilage studs are not adjustable so you need to choose the length of the post.
How do I work out the length?